Thursday, December 15, 2016

5 years!! And 1 year + 11 months

how are we already parents of five year-olds?!

we recently completed a private kindergarten application that required (too) many essay questions, one of which was to describe your child's personality, strengths, etc.  this was a painful but also really interesting exercise for me and john - trying to describe who your child is in a few hundred words is no easy task.  i figure i'd paste our responses in here so we'll be able to look back later and see how/if they change!  as you will be able to see from my description, they're basically perfect and have zero undesirable qualities. ;)

JACKS
Jacks is a balanced and adaptable child.  We see this at home and hear it from his teachers.  He loves playing in groups and is also perfectly happy working independently.  He is a self-starter and, whether he’s fort-building or reading a Lego instruction guide, he always finds ways to stay engaged. He alternates fluidly between leadership and supporting roles, and his teachers have commented that this versatility makes him quite adaptable as a friend and classmate.

Jacks is an attentive listener and enjoys being a helping hand.  For the past three years, his teachers have consistently confirmed what we see at home, which is that Jacks is an amazing ally during clean-up time, often the first to start helping and the last one standing to finish the job.  Jacks is organized and methodical—we know those blocks are lined up neatly and grouped by color and shape!  Some of his favorite pastimes include “little jobs” where he’ll approach any task—from setting and clearing the table to sorting and shelving groceries—with enthusiasm.

Jacks has a passion for numbers, and identifies them in his environment or finds ways to integrate them into daily activities.  We can’t drive down Geary without him identifying each avenue we cross and how many blocks we have left.  Every night, he’ll check the clock a few times and tell you exactly how many minutes are left until his 8pm bedtime.  In class, his teachers have mentioned that Jacks will sometimes study the calendar on the wall and attract the attention of other kids who gather around him as he starts calling out different patterns he sees on the chart.


LIVI
Livi is a bundle of hilarious joy and has an infectious sense of humor.  From the time she learned to talk, she has used language as a way to make people laugh.  It is a common occurrence at home and at school to hear children (and often grown-ups!) roaring with laughter at one of her stories or jokes. Humor is not the only way that Livi brings joy to others; she’s also compassionate and thoughtful. When a friend or sibling is sad or upset, she is quick to comfort them with a hug, or by finding one of their favorite loveys or toys.

A keen listener with an inquisitive nature, Livi won’t hesitate to ask for the definition of a word she’s unfamiliar with, or to correct someone if a story deviates from a previous telling.  Her recall of information is quite impressive—she’ll often recount a story or fact from a months-old discussion that, but for her recollection, we would have never remembered.

Livi is an easy-going and resilient child.  If a tower or fort she is building collapses, she simply reassesses her approach and quietly starts rebuilding.  If she makes a mistake writing a letter, she casually crosses it out, refocuses, and tries again.   Inventive and resourceful, Livi often scavenges the house searching for boxes, egg cartons, tape, and assorted kitchen items, and before we know it, she’ll have built an elaborate doll house or fashioned a pair of footwear for herself.  She’s not very interested in store-bought toys, and prefers incorporating her own idea-born creations into imaginative play.


can't believe how grown-up they are getting!

all their classmates are already 5, so I think
they were especially excited to say goodbye to 4

"don't forget me!!"

one. more. month.

present time with sheila!

i was so excited to capture this gem
 before taking them to school

livi just learned to climb the tree - the school rule is that
you can climb it if you can do so on your own w/o help

jacks tried so hard, but luckily the teachers turned a
blind eye for me to give him a little birthday boost! =)

birthday popsicles and crowns

i guess it's never too cold for popsicles!

livi loved her ballerina jewelry box...
now we just need to keep lyla away from it!

a birthday is not complete without candles and cake

lyla was waiting so patiently...

we are definitely a family with a sweet tooth!

all ready for their bowling birthday party!

no lyla, you're not bowling!

there are five kids in the class with birthdays in the same week,
so it's been great to have joint parties with 3 other families 

the only quiet at the party came during cupcake time

there is so much less clean-up when lyla
doesn't hold her own cupcake =)

it took 5 years, but i think jacks and livi are
finally past the "i'm scared of face paint" stage

livi observed most of the time, and finally at the
very end, decided she'd have a turn

thank goodness face paint is not an everyday occurrence!

Tuesday, December 13, 2016

happy thanksgiving! yes, a little late...

this year we spent the long thanksgiving weekend with friends in sea ranch, which is a small coastal town up north in mendocino county.  we rented a house and spent our time hiking, eating, drinking and catching-up.  most of the weekend ended up being pretty rainy, but the kids were thoroughly entertained with toys, board games, and movies.  and the best part...there was no internet!  cell reception was spotty, so no working for john (yay!) and lots of talking and reading for everyone!

pit stop on the way to sea ranch

we got there before our friends arrived, so we went out exploring

nothing like some waves to keep these kids mesmerized

our babies!

family selfie (thanks to john's long arms!)

livi came running over in protest when she saw this picture was happening

my mini-me!

the ocean here gave me anxiety (i was scared they'd get swept away!)

thankfully, they were happy to move to calmer waters

the first one up every morning!

we saw the same five deer each morning as they grazed on the plants

getting in some exercise

just two young moms trying to get their babies to nap

here we are not helping with thanksgivng meal prep

out at dinner one night we happened to catch the cutest
 parade of trucks covered in christmas lights

because of the rain, we spent lots of time in the house 

but we managed to get out and see the seals anyway

the best part of walking in the rain was...

going straight to the hot tub followed by
an amazing outdoor shower

we couldn't end a road trip without stopping at our favorite place!

milkshakes for all!!

Saturday, November 26, 2016

4 years + 11 months...and 1 year + 10 months

one more month until we have two 5 year-olds!  we feel like we've been spending every free moment over the last 6 weeks dealing with kindergarten tours, applications, etc.  if we're not rushing to work at 11am after a morning tour, then we're spending evenings writing essays about how amazing our kids are.  because the public school system in sf relies on a lottery to determine school assignments, many people also apply to independent (private) schools as well.  after our tours, applications, parent interviews, and kid interviews are completed in january, we'll wait until kindergarten news is delivered in march.

jacks and livi definitely seem more grown up lately.  they've entered a phase where they are bickering more with each other but overall are still silly and fun kids. we took them to a kindergarten open house last weekend and couldn't believe we'd be sending them off to K in less than a year.

lyla went through a good month or two where she would throw herself on the ground crying, scream until she was held, and refuse any food at mealtime.  let's just say i was not a fan of this phase (but thankfully had remembered it from when the twins were younger).  over the past two weeks, though, she's been so much better - eating more, laughing more, and being more independent.

one more month!

the trio

two little monkeys

getting in the fall spirit by making houses for their pumpkins

wilbur

this cute one is still a little hesitant with strangers

the sweetest spider i've ever seen

of course this little piggy is snacking

meet templeton, wilbur and charlotte at their
school's halloween fair

a trip to the pumpkin patch with sheila

such cuties

not sure what's going on here

time for trick-or-treating!

these two were soooo excited!

we were not as thrilled, especially when it began to rain

lyla passed out for most of trick-or-treating

counting their loot was the highlight, as expected

a few days after halloween, john did a 24 hour relay
from sf to napa with some friends

me and the kids stayed at a friend's house in napa
while her husband ran as well

lyla quickly made herself at home

enjoying some quiet away from the big kids!

we played... 

and played 

so many pictures of lyla since jacks and livi
were off with all their buddies

pretending she's ready for bed

hanging on the front porch

we could get used to this!

lyla went to her first swim lesson

she had a blast!!

she's getting more skilled at her scooter, but we still end
up carrying her and her scooter for most of the outing

off to pick up some pictures for jacks' school project

we made a quick stop at the park

working on his "roots" project

an opportunity to share about his family with the class

he was a bit shy in front of the crowd,
but john and jacks did a great job presenting

after your roots, you take home stinky the skunk
and journal about his adventures!

stinky had a wonderful time at our house

john had an even better time chronicling
stinky's adventures

stinky did A LOT of errands with our family

got to watch the presidential election with us

got out and about in the city

and even got in some good exercise

still hitting up the birthday party circuit

gearing up for their own birthday!

we finally got her a real pillow
after using this makeshift one

these goofballs love playing together...

and making each other laugh

livi made shoes while lyla adorned her face with stickers

they were both very proud of their creations

a king bed never felt so small

jacks was so tired (and not feeling well) that he passed out
before fulfilling his lights out duties

john was thrilled coming to bed at midnight to find this

winding down for bed!

our happy toddler

shaking it at storytime class

quiet time at home

a rainy day obstacle course

post-nap snuggles

amazing straw glasses from auntie keet and uncle mike

who knew drinking milk could be this fun!